DO YOU CONSIDER THE RELATIONSHIP YOURE IN SERIOUS?

[carnage2727]

well do you guys and gals?

[carnage2727]

me as a man of class think my relationship with my wife is very serious. I have a friend lets call him MILHOUSE he is a big cheater hell be with woman for about a week and he would have already cheated on her. The reason i posted this topic is because im truely pissed at him for breaking womens hearts the way he does and it will come back to get him and it sucks to see a woman cry even if you dont like her or even despise her. I know when i see my wife cry i always tear up and start apologizing and try to make it better and ill say it I FULL ON CRY WHEN IVE UPSET MY WIFE it hurts me to know ive hurt her Because i just love her so much... hey look at me im acting like Tom Cruise hahaha but on the real real i couldnt see my life without her she is everything to me

[Angelina77]

I for one believe one should be faithful.Why be in a relation ship that is committed if all you're going to do is run around town on the other? That's precisely what has happened to almost everyone in my life's relationships. It is very hard to find the "good ol' boys" out there because they are either already married, not ready to commit, or gay! I can see you're a pretty sensitive guy carnage, your lady must be proud!! :P

[carnage2727]

she better be proud or else im doin someting wrong. i think i am a good ol boy as one man has already said about me a few weeks back. i may be kind of a grouch ANGELINA but i think i could make you happy. SO do u have boyfriend? or a husband or someone in mind to fill either one of those titles?

[Videoskooter]

When you have a relationship, you stick together or you go separate ways. I've never betrayed a girlfriend during a relationship. That's something that goes completely against my principles as man of honour.

And I certainly don't believe in the open relationship humbug. Always be truthful in every thing you do. If you start a relationship you have to work on it every day.

Lina, I'm so sorry to hear that you already had your part of sorrow and pain. I had my share of it too, believe me, but I have one guideline in my life: if somebody betrayes me, the door is closed for ever.

[remicks]

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ANGELINA but i think i could make you happy. SO do u have boyfriend? or a husband or someone in mind to fill either one of those titles?

you were doing so well Carnage 8) ...... but you played your hand too soon !! :P

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[carnage2727]

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you were doing so well Carnage 8) ...... but you played your hand too soon !! :P

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hey remicks it shows what you know. LETS SEE what ANGELINA writes back to me. then well see if i messed up or if you actually want to be me.

[remicks]

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:lol: I think you may find ANGELINA too preoccupied for you right now ..... she's busy consoling your tear ridden wife !!! :lol: :lol:

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[Videoskooter]

Yes Remicks! Carnage starts a topic about his lovely wife and that he's a good old boy and a caring husband for her and then he goes straight after Angelina. Very weird :lol:

[carnage2727]

Videoskooter why would u think that is weird? think about my replies. I LOVE MY WIFE very much i aint weird.

[SandraDee]

Open relationships do work as long as you're honest with each other. I don't understand why people think love & sex are the same thing, they're not. I can go shag a gorgeous man I meet one day but I'll always go back to my man 'cos I love him so much & I'll tell him everything I got up to which then spices up OUR sex! As long as you practise safe sex what's the problem? There's no emotional involvemant outside of the relationship.

[QUINNY]

Open relationships do work as long as you're honest with each other. I don't understand why people think love & sex are the same thing, they're not. I can go shag a gorgeous man I meet one day but I'll always go back to my man 'cos I love him so much & I'll tell him everything I got up to which then spices up OUR sex! As long as you practise safe sex what's the problem? There's no emotional involvemant outside of the relationship.

This is the self same attitude that lead to AIDS being spread in the early '80s, by non-safe sex practicing men (and women). If you really think that it's OK to go shag whoever you want, then you really don't deserve to be in a relationship. If you really can't tell the difference between love and sex, you don't deserve to be in a relationship. No ifs, no buts.

[remicks]

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shhhhh..... Dee .....you're revealing too much ....

If you really can't tell the difference between love and sex, you don't deserve to be in a relationship

But that is exactly the point ..... Dee can tell the difference and he's divided the two quite nicely .....

I have been in the same relationship for over twenty years ..... and thank goodness we got over all that clingy possessive crap years ago !!!
There's a term for the fellas that fall for that girly Cinderella sex = love stuff ...... whipped !!!

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[Videoskooter]

There's a term for the fellas that fall for that girly Cinderella sex = love stuff ...... whipped !!!
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So you mean that I can go hump around with lots of woman, return home and still be honestly in love with my wife :roll: I know she wouldn't accept it, I wouldn't even think about doing it and I wouldn't accept it from her either.

Sex is part of a relationship, sex is personal, sex is the ultimate intimicy between two partners. At least, that's my humble opinion. Do I judge people who think about it differently? No!! But I'm not sharing their views, that's for sure!!!!!!.

[remicks]

So you mean that I can go hump around , return home and still be honestly in love ...?

--- No... don't know if you can . Do know that I can .

Do I judge people who think about it differently? No!! But I'm not sharing their views, that's for sure!!!!!!.

AMEN 8) 8) 8)

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[carnage2727]

I totaly agree with VIDEO. a relationship is when you take that person and only that person for you to be with. the mind THE BODY and the spirit. so in other words that person you have comitted to is the only person for you.(period) i would never accept my woman to be with another guy. EVER. just like she would never allow me to be with another woman. SEX is SACRED it is THE most intimate thing that two people can do with each other, it is not only passionate but it is an act of LOVE between those two individuals.

[remicks]

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:lol: Oh, Car-ney !! .....ANGELINA's calling you ...... :lol: :lol:

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[SandraDee]

This is the self same attitude that lead to AIDS being spread

Much as I hate to rain on your moralistic & some might say sanctimonious/pious parade Q but AIDS/HIV is spread by unsafe sex, blood transfusions or sharing needles, not by an 'attitude'. AIDS/HIV is frequently transmitted during monogamous relationships as one of or both of the partners may have had unprotected sex before meeting each other & then they proceed to have unprotected sex with each other. I have always had safe sex whether in a relationship or not & I know what my HIV status is. Do you know your HIV status or your sexual partner's? Frankly, your ignorance on this topic is frightening. :o

[SandraDee]

SEX is SACRED

Sex is an animalistic bodily urge & physical gratification, plain & simple. It's so pathetic when people dress it up in this rose-tinted romantic or pseudo-religious drivel. :roll:

[carnage2727]

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:lol: Oh, Car-ney !! .....ANGELINA's calling you ...... :lol: :lol:

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hey remicks you need to stop. all i have to ask is that do u have a certain someone in your life? you know what remicks haw about you tell me about yourself i want to see what kind of person you are.

[BrunoRepublic]

Regardless of what sort of relationship I'm in, it's always good. Anytime that I start to feel insecure about the choices I've made, I just tell others that they're wrong. It always makes me feel better!

[QUINNY]

This is the self same attitude that lead to AIDS being spread

Much as I hate to rain on your moralistic & some might say sanctimonious/pious parade Q but AIDS/HIV is spread by unsafe sex, blood transfusions or sharing needles, not by an 'attitude'. AIDS/HIV is frequently transmitted during monogamous relationships as one of or both of the partners may have had unprotected sex before meeting each other & then they proceed to have unprotected sex with each other. I have always had safe sex whether in a relationship or not & I know what my HIV status is. Do you know your HIV status or your sexual partner's? Frankly, your ignorance on this topic is frightening. :o

The font of all knowledge has spoken:
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Quite frankly, your mis-quoting of me is also frightening. Try reading what I wrote down just one more time in its entirety and you'll see that I am not at all ignorant. It can't be coincidence that AIDS began when it did, or that it spread so quickly, initially amongst a certain, notoriously sexually promiscuous community, many of whom didn't know what safe sex was or even cared about it, until the penny dropped. If you want to live in total denial, be my guest, but you're only fooling yourself.

No I don't know my HIV status, that's true, but why should I? I've had the same partner for 27 years and neither of us have developed any AIDS symptoms in all that time (surprise, surprise). We don't need to live in fear as we don't go around shagging anything that walks, don't share needles and haven't needed a blood transfusion. Cute, eh? :D

[SandraDee]

What a smug, self-righteous & odious individual you are. There are currently record numbers of new HIV infections amongst straight people & the figure gets alarmingly bigger every year. If they're anything like you, I'm not surprised. You obviously think you're somehow imune to it. Those poor people in the 70s knew nothing about this dreadful disease; how can you be so callous to say that the 'penny hadn't dropped' or words to that effect. You should be ashamed of yourself. You're so like other people I've met over the years with no compassion for others; I bet you class yourself as Christian as well.

[QUINNY]

What a smug, self-righteous & odious individual you are. There are currently record numbers of new HIV infections amongst straight people & the figure gets alarmingly bigger every year. If they're anything like you, I'm not surprised. You obviously think you're somehow imune to it. Those poor people in the 70s knew nothing about this dreadful disease; how can you be so callous to say that the 'penny hadn't dropped' or words to that effect. You should be ashamed of yourself. You're so like other people I've met over the years with no compassion for others; I bet you class yourself as Christian as well.

Moi, smug??? Why the hell shouldn't I be. I've lead a very responsible life of self restraint and haven't given into animal urges at the drop of a hat. Believe me when I tell you that I had plenty of chances to shag myself senseless, but chose to be more choosey. You know absolutely that the more sexual encounters you have, there is a greater chance of contracting HIV and AIDS and yet you still choose to shag around. What don't you understand, as we all know that safe sex is not totally guaranteed, especially in the heat of the moment?

Oh dear, you love to screw the statistics around don't you? Doubtless, HIV has increased among heteros....mostly in Africa where they still have a very casual attitude to sex, where women are treated as sexual objects to be enjoyed by men wherever and whenever they like and where ignorance and poverty are sadly rife. It is obviously a potential problem for heteros in the west, as many of them are horny and stupid to boot.

I didn't know that the Bible says "shag thyself stupid" in any of the text, not that I've read any of the good book in over 45 years. Yes, I do live by Christian principles, one of which is that marriage is 'sacred', based on fidelty, trust and mutual respect and that you 'forsake all others'. Obviously words that don't figure large in your vocabulary.

[SandraDee]

I do live by Christian principles

I knew it; God squad. The problem isn't just in Africa; it's official i'm afraid so wise up luvvy. I usually choose to ignore you Quinny 'cos from the minute you came to this forum I found you incredibly arrogant, devious & nasty. My opinion hasn't changed so before I go back to ignoring you can i just say something that isn't nice, clever or informative but it really pleases me & gets something off my chest - go **** yourself you twat! No ifs, no buts!