DO YOU CONSIDER THE RELATIONSHIP YOURE IN SERIOUS?

[carnage2727]

well do you guys and gals?

[carnage2727]

me as a man of class think my relationship with my wife is very serious. I have a friend lets call him MILHOUSE he is a big cheater hell be with woman for about a week and he would have already cheated on her. The reason i posted this topic is because im truely pissed at him for breaking womens hearts the way he does and it will come back to get him and it sucks to see a woman cry even if you dont like her or even despise her. I know when i see my wife cry i always tear up and start apologizing and try to make it better and ill say it I FULL ON CRY WHEN IVE UPSET MY WIFE it hurts me to know ive hurt her Because i just love her so much... hey look at me im acting like Tom Cruise hahaha but on the real real i couldnt see my life without her she is everything to me

[Angelina77]

I for one believe one should be faithful.Why be in a relation ship that is committed if all you're going to do is run around town on the other? That's precisely what has happened to almost everyone in my life's relationships. It is very hard to find the "good ol' boys" out there because they are either already married, not ready to commit, or gay! I can see you're a pretty sensitive guy carnage, your lady must be proud!! :P

[carnage2727]

she better be proud or else im doin someting wrong. i think i am a good ol boy as one man has already said about me a few weeks back. i may be kind of a grouch ANGELINA but i think i could make you happy. SO do u have boyfriend? or a husband or someone in mind to fill either one of those titles?

[Videoskooter]

When you have a relationship, you stick together or you go separate ways. I've never betrayed a girlfriend during a relationship. That's something that goes completely against my principles as man of honour.

And I certainly don't believe in the open relationship humbug. Always be truthful in every thing you do. If you start a relationship you have to work on it every day.

Lina, I'm so sorry to hear that you already had your part of sorrow and pain. I had my share of it too, believe me, but I have one guideline in my life: if somebody betrayes me, the door is closed for ever.

[remicks]

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Originally Posted by carnage2727

ANGELINA but i think i could make you happy. SO do u have boyfriend? or a husband or someone in mind to fill either one of those titles?

you were doing so well Carnage 8) ...... but you played your hand too soon !! :P

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[carnage2727]

Originally Posted by remicks

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you were doing so well Carnage 8) ...... but you played your hand too soon !! :P

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hey remicks it shows what you know. LETS SEE what ANGELINA writes back to me. then well see if i messed up or if you actually want to be me.

[remicks]

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:lol: I think you may find ANGELINA too preoccupied for you right now ..... she's busy consoling your tear ridden wife !!! :lol: :lol:

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[Videoskooter]

Yes Remicks! Carnage starts a topic about his lovely wife and that he's a good old boy and a caring husband for her and then he goes straight after Angelina. Very weird :lol:

[carnage2727]

Videoskooter why would u think that is weird? think about my replies. I LOVE MY WIFE very much i aint weird.

[SandraDee]

Open relationships do work as long as you're honest with each other. I don't understand why people think love & sex are the same thing, they're not. I can go shag a gorgeous man I meet one day but I'll always go back to my man 'cos I love him so much & I'll tell him everything I got up to which then spices up OUR sex! As long as you practise safe sex what's the problem? There's no emotional involvemant outside of the relationship.

[QUINNY]

Originally Posted by SandraDee

Open relationships do work as long as you're honest with each other. I don't understand why people think love & sex are the same thing, they're not. I can go shag a gorgeous man I meet one day but I'll always go back to my man 'cos I love him so much & I'll tell him everything I got up to which then spices up OUR sex! As long as you practise safe sex what's the problem? There's no emotional involvemant outside of the relationship.

This is the self same attitude that lead to AIDS being spread in the early '80s, by non-safe sex practicing men (and women). If you really think that it's OK to go shag whoever you want, then you really don't deserve to be in a relationship. If you really can't tell the difference between love and sex, you don't deserve to be in a relationship. No ifs, no buts.

[remicks]

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shhhhh..... Dee .....you're revealing too much ....

If you really can't tell the difference between love and sex, you don't deserve to be in a relationship

But that is exactly the point ..... Dee can tell the difference and he's divided the two quite nicely .....

I have been in the same relationship for over twenty years ..... and thank goodness we got over all that clingy possessive crap years ago !!!
There's a term for the fellas that fall for that girly Cinderella sex = love stuff ...... whipped !!!

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[Videoskooter]

Originally Posted by remicks

There's a term for the fellas that fall for that girly Cinderella sex = love stuff ...... whipped !!!
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So you mean that I can go hump around with lots of woman, return home and still be honestly in love with my wife :roll: I know she wouldn't accept it, I wouldn't even think about doing it and I wouldn't accept it from her either.

Sex is part of a relationship, sex is personal, sex is the ultimate intimicy between two partners. At least, that's my humble opinion. Do I judge people who think about it differently? No!! But I'm not sharing their views, that's for sure!!!!!!.

[remicks]

Originally Posted by Videoskooter

So you mean that I can go hump around , return home and still be honestly in love ...?

--- No... don't know if you can . Do know that I can .

Do I judge people who think about it differently? No!! But I'm not sharing their views, that's for sure!!!!!!.

AMEN 8) 8) 8)

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