Discussion on What are your turnoffs?????? within the General Entertainment forums, part of the Non-Music Discussions category; When seeking a mate what would completely turn you off? A man who is/has: :x Loud and obnoxious :evil: Stingy ...
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February 20th, 2003, 02:43 AM
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 What are your turnoffs?????? When seeking a mate what would completely turn you off? A man who is/has: :x Loud and obnoxious :evil: Stingy :x a hairy back :x sex addict :evil: married but thinks he's a bachelor :x gold teeth :x lazy :evil: baggage - several baby mothers :x boring :evil: no spirituality :evil: stink/dosen't bathe :x dirty nails/ashy crusty hands :evil: a chauvanist pig :evil: controlling/abusive :x poor grammar (starts every sentence with "knowhaImsayin") :x unkempt hair :x no conversation :evil: no education :x a follower - listens to everything his friends say :x a mama's boy :x on excessive jewerly/cologne *DISCO DELIGHT*         |
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February 20th, 2003, 10:18 AM
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| Hustlebaby, Two things come to mind... A woman who smokes is a complete turn off-I don't care how beautiful she is. A woman who looks dirty. Madonna is a perfect example of this. She could shower ten times in a row and she would still look like a skank.
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February 20th, 2003, 11:26 AM
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| Man I am actually looking for female bears, unfortunately I don't live in Canada. Bernie I disagree with you on smoking. It depends for me on the way the girls is smoking. It can be really sexy. What turns me completely off is a girl who says coarse words ( I hope you will understad those words, I'm not sure of myself)
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February 20th, 2003, 12:20 PM
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For me, turnoffs are: - Ignorance - Arrogance - Violence - Selfishness - Stupidity - Hypocrisy - Duplicity - Irrationality (includes unpredictable mood swings, absurd religious beliefs, etc.) - Insensitivity - Immaturity - Promiscuity (I guess I'm old-fashioned) - Shallowness - Pretentiousness - Humourlessness - Drug use/alcoholism - Poor personal hygiene - Long hair (it just screams hippie/white trash) -- hey, I had to get one physical characteristic in there! |
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February 20th, 2003, 02:14 PM
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| Re: What are your turnoffs?????? Quote:
OK, I generally prefer the glass half full approach when looking at women but in terms of negative: No fatties No loud mouths No women competing with me Oh and I saw one more thing off Graham's list that I absolutely hate, pretentiousness.
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February 20th, 2003, 02:30 PM
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| Re: What are your turnoffs?????? [quote="paul"] Quote:
That line from the Village People's " (Everybody Is A Star) In Hollywood " ....something about "Have yourself paged/scream on the phone as though in a rage" is toooo true. Everybody wants everybody else to think THEY are IMPORTANT!!!! Gag me with a Nokia.
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February 20th, 2003, 02:33 PM
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| Two other things I forgot to mention: - Dishonesty. Completely unacceptable to me in any context. - Dramatics -- although I guess I could include that under "immaturity" and "irrationality". |
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February 20th, 2003, 02:40 PM
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| Re: What are your turnoffs?????? [quote="markydefad"] Quote:
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February 20th, 2003, 05:48 PM
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| HustleBaby: Please no offence intended, but for me a huge turn off would be a woman with a list as long as yours. :o Hetero men are feeling very threatened right now. Perhaps we will all turn into the human equivalent of drones and only the really fantastic Alpha males will get the chance to mate in the near future. I think the inability to share (in success or failure) is a turn off, with Insincerity dishonesty masculinity (I really miss womens' femininity these days, and heavy womens libbers sorta wind me up sometimes). |
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February 20th, 2003, 09:50 PM
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| [quote="QUINNY"]HustleBaby: Please no offence intended, but for me a huge turn off would be a woman with a list as long as yours. :o Hetero men are feeling very threatened right now. quote] I knew someone wouldn't agree with that list and you don't have to. For your information Quinny, because of these turn-offs, it helped me avoid a lot of negative relationships. I'm going to use a few examples to prove my point: :evil: 1.Men with baggage a.k.a Baby Mama Drama I don't want to deal with excess probaly misbehaved children and a ex-wife/girlfriend from hell! :evil: 2.Sex Addict - This type of man is TOO preoccupied with sex, only talks about sex, extensive collection of porno mags, lives in the stripper clubs or peep shows. And worst of all he thinks that a penis is the only thing that makes a woman COMPLETELY happy. Women know that all men want to get laid but damn don't be so freaking desperate and obvious!!!!!!! :evil: 3.The Married Bachelor - He has a wife and family but too busy trying to score and has the nerve to get pissed off when he finds out that he's not the only one in your life! :evil: 4.Loud & Obnoxious - Now who wants to date a NEANDERTHAL?!? :o :x . I can't stand a man that always want to be seen and heard. He talks too damn much and saying nothing intelligent. Afterawhile you have to tell him to shut the f**k up!!!!! Graham's list just helped me extend mine - Immaturity, Drug Use/Alcoholic, Hypocrisy, except for long hair  PAUL my dear, there are straight men out there who don't fit in that list - thank god! I think my turn-offs were pretty fair, you and Quinny wouldn't date a woman who's name is written all over that list right? *DISCO DELIGHT* |
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February 20th, 2003, 10:26 PM
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| Re: What are your turnoffs?????? A man who is/has: :evil: Stingy - I'm allergic to cheap men! :x lazy - Get off your a** and get a job! :evil: no spirituality - He dosen't have to go to church every sunday and recite the bible from cover to cover however he got to have some kind of connection, sense or beliefs with God. There's nothing wrong connecting with your inner soul. Unfortunately, some guys think its corny :( . :evil: stink/dosen't bathe - Need I say more??? :evil: a chauvanist pig - Women should be barefoot and pregnant???The man is the boss????? Women must obey the man???A woman's place is in the kitchen??? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: My place is wherever my feet takes ME !:evil: controlling/abusive - Any man who disagrees with this turn-off is a dangerous one! Stay away from me! :evil: no education - Who wants to date a MORON???? *DISCO DELIGHT*[/quote] ------------------------------------------------------------- I must add: :x Men with no culture :evil: Men who are disrespectful towards their mothers :x Men with NO table manners :evil: LIARS *DELIGHTFUL* |
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February 21st, 2003, 02:42 AM
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I did date women with some of those female applicable attributes on your list. Finding the sex addict (nympho) was a rare and fortunate blessing when I found one :)
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February 21st, 2003, 02:47 AM
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February 21st, 2003, 04:01 AM
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| HustleBaby: I just feel lucky that I was able to find someone special and settle down. Everyone has faults and in a good relationship, I think you more or less see past them. There appears to be less ability to give and take these days. Hence you and your list would be a turn off, if you wanted it all, and so many men and women do want it all. I blame it on too many of them being spoilt as kids and never having anyone in their life tell them no! |
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